While we have seen rising cases of married men keeping side chicks and mistresses out there, most of these men have on the other hand done everything to keep their marriage intact.
Some have equally wondered why these men don’t just go ahead to marry their side chicks since they seems to have found so much fun, peace and more in them? But these people fail to understand that things don’t just work that way and will never work that way.
There’s hardly any sane man out there who would naturally push out his wife at home just to accommodate his mistress, it is just a rare occurrence in life. Yes, this men understand the boundary marks in all these things they do outside their marriage, and you can’t possibly expect them to destroy their beautiful homes for one girl out there in the name of a side chick.
First, he understands your worth as a side chick, that if you were such a decent woman, a wife material and more, that you wouldn’t probably be in the game with him; I mean having affairs with a married men, coz you didn’t start it with him and won’t equally end with him.
He is conscious of the fact that you are just good for catching fun and warming his bed, and nothing more.
He watches your dressing, your utterances, lifestyle and more. So, he knows you can never be compared to his wife in that regard. You can only top his wife when it comes to inventing different sex styles. And you expect him to push his lovely wife out and marry you? Where is that ever done?
Equally, he doesn’t even trust that you will be faithful, he has that mindset that as you are doing with him, same way you are doing behind him with some other men. Yes, because he knows that your love and lust for money drove you into that lifestyle, and as such, you are willing and ready to do it behind him for more money.
On the other hand, every sane married man doesn’t joke with the happiness and wellbeing of his children, and dishing out their mother for your sake automatically jeopardizes that. Do you think he will destroy all that because of you? If yes, then you must be a lover of the game of “wild goose chase”.
During sex, you show all sorts of ungodly acts and styles, which reminds him of how wild and immoral you are. In his mind, he knows his exact boundary with you, and don’t fool yourself that all that ungodly stuffs you do with him will eventually make him choose you over his wife at home.
Ask yourself, what does he pick his wife’s calls in your presence, but won’t ever try taking your calls in the presence of his wife? Yes, even if you are at the point of death, he will hardly take those calls of yours while with his wife or beautiful family.
If you were worth it, don’t you think he would risk it, knowing that if his wife decides to divorce him, that you as his side chick is there to fill the void? But no, he doesn’t see you in that picture. He could spend millions or whatever amount of money on you, but you see that picture, you are not there.
That alone should remind you of your position in his list of priorities. So, just enjoy the fun and goodies while it lasts, and don’t waste your time dreaming beyond that coz it will most likely end in futility.
