Relax your mind before you start unleashing your poisonous venoms on me for my caption about love, relax your frayed nerves and let’s have a decent and mature conversation. First of all, we cannot dispute the fact that LOVE is one of the most beautiful thing to have ever existed in the human world, and the beauty there in can never be over emphasized.
But that doesn’t take away the fact that there are lots of stupidity associated with the adventure called love. Let me tell you, love is one of the most risky adventures ever known to mankind, and its own kind of risk is mostly beyond the management and control of the business partners in it.
While you are in love with some one else, doing everything for this person, including making huge all round investments in the life of this person you are in love with. But on the other hand, can you perfectly say this is the direction of the mind of this person you are in love with? Obviously no, as you might be walking South and this your lover will be walking North. In the end, you might find out that though you both are physically close, but emotionally very far away from each other.
Unfortunately, the physical doesn’t have much impact on the affairs of love, it is that emotional axis that has much control on the affairs of love. So, you will be investing everything in that love, and having no knowledge of the plans of your partner, which direction their heart is going, only to end up as a lonely person at the top or in the middle of the sea. Meanwhile, this was an adventure you started with someone you put all your trust in, travelling together happily! Some do it for sexual satisfaction, to extort money, to place you as their comforter only to be discarded once things returns normal in their previous relationship, etc, and not even bothered about your feelings and emotions, or what becomes of your life afterwards.
You might be building a future with your lover, but on the other hand, that your lover is building a future with some other person, and even that third party might as well be building a future with some other person elsewhere. This could go on for years even, and in the end, you would have seen that you were just pouring water into a basket. This is not in any way discrediting the beauty with love, no. Love still remains a very beautiful thing, such that cannot be compared or replaced with anything else.
BuT it is just sheer wickedness and heartlessness for you to treat your fellow human being in that manner. Just imagine that you got admission into the university, studying a four years course, and only to find out in the end that you were given a fake admission, how will you feel? All the years, time, money, other resources and uncountable sacrifices you made in that process, all just went down the drain like that. If death is not all that will plague your mind at such moments, I don’t know what else will be in your mind. That’s exactly what ‘Fake Love’ does to humanity on many occasions.
You will be investing everything you have or earned into that relationship, in the name of love, only to wake up one morning and see that your partner was actually playing with your feelings and emotions all these while. Meanwhile, this thing is not gender based, it is found in both genders, and people do these things as often as possible, without even feeling remorse, any atom of guilt or pity inside of them.
(photo credit: The Bridal Box And Story Obsession)
