The last may not have been heard with the increasing preference of sex toys and vibrators by many women over their male lovers. Well, the most recent is coming from the latest episode of the podcast “The Honest Bunch” by Glitch Africa Studios, during which Big Brother Naija Star, Doyin David openly made it clear that what a good vibrator or sex toy can do, that no man on earth can do it.
In her exact words, “me I know one thing, what a sex toy can do, what a good vibrator can do, I do not know one man that can do that”. And then added, “you see that rhythm, that consistency that a vibrator has, no man can wiggle his tongue consistently like that till you cum”.
Then she further talked about the fact that when you are having it with your man, and he’s actually getting it right in that process but only to change the rhythm while she’s about to cum, which hurts so bad, because the satisfaction you were already approaching has been cut short as a result of the inconsistency attached to the perform of men. But that you can never experience such with a vibrator, as that satisfaction you are either craving for or approaching must be actualized.
Though her opinion on this subject matter has stirred up mixed controversial reactions from people, with a lot of women actually supporting her opinion, while the opposite gender were visibly opposed to that idea and concept of preferring sex toys and vibrators over their boyfriends and male lovers. Sadly, that is the direction the world has chosen to head to, as relationship is no longer about love, caring, and peace of mind. No, it has shifted from that point of view long time ago, it is ninety percent (90%) about sexual satisfaction and financial stability.
Sadly, the presence of that wealth is not enough any longer to make a woman stay honest to her man, as she’s constantly and desperately seeking avenues to satisfy her burning sexual desires. That’s why you see many married women of today having different sizes of sex toys and vibrators at home, of which majority of the husbands of these women are not aware of it. What’s the danger there in? The woman will definitely stop having sexual interest in her husband and there’s nothing the man can ever do to satisfy her sexual desires.
At the point, the marriage or relationship has started developing cracks, which will eventually lead to the collapse of that marriage. Without mincing words, the important roles sex play in any relationship or marriage can never ever be overemphasized, and once that role has been tampered with, then everything is affected.
Once sex toy and vibrator has won the heart of your woman, my brother just forget it, you can never win her back. Whenever you want to touch her, it will be irritating her, making her unhappy, because your space in her sexual world/life has been occupied by the thing that gives her the satisfaction and happiness that you cannot give to her. This is the same reason you see wives of some wealthy men, going after their houseboy, gatemen, errand boys in their house, etc, just for the sake of that sexual desires and sexual satisfaction.
And have it in mind that most women do not joke with whatever that drives them wild sexually, they are willing and ready to do anything to protect and preserve that one thing. It used to be houseboys, gatemen, etc, but for today, sex toys and vibrators have taken over.
To further buttress my point, one of the guest on that discussion, Ezinne Jollof, stated also that if a vibrator can give you that satisfaction you crave for, just in three seconds, then what are you still doing with a man in your life. So you see the danger we are talking about, and the speed with which this our generation is embracing all these things, is even the biggest danger facing marriage and relationships.
All these are part of the reason why we have lots of divorces here and there, because you can not tolerate anything coz that thing he or she has, you can as well get it elsewhere, and even very urgently for that matter. It is so unfortunate that science, technology and civilization has brought a lot of great changes to the world, but it has in several ways caused a lot of damages to mankind. Call me archaic, old fashioned and village person, I don’t care, but I shall continue preaching the truth, of which we all know how most people of today hate hearing the truth.
(photo credit: YouTube/Glitch Africa Studios)