A certain fine girl from Onitsha, Anambra state has practically caused confusion on social media as she laments over the crash of her seven (7) years serious relationship.
This is coming at a time the relationship was at the verge of reaching it climax (marriage). But what’s even most interesting in the story is the reason behind the crash of the seven years relationship.
According to her, the relationship crashed on the day she and her fiance had fixed for their photoshoot ahead of their traditional marriage. Then only for her man to find out that she’s an awada/nwaotu girl, and he left her.
“Me cleaning off my makeup because steeze no gree me cry after my 7 years relationship ended on the day of our pre traditional photoshoot.
Just because he found out that I be awada (nwaotu) girl,” she wrote.
For clarity purpose, awada or nwaotu is someone from Onitsha, and they are naturally attributed to be endowed with rugged attitude and unique street behavior.
Of which some people are of the opinion that it could be that he’s just scared of what she may turn into when they are married.
On the other hand, probably that he doesn’t want his children to inherit those attributes from the woman he will marry.
Meanwhile, people have blamed both of them for failing to do the right thing at the right time, hence doing the right thing at the wrong timing. Because knowing each other’s family background and lineage is among the first thing they should have sorted out before even discussing marriage.
While it is even unnatural for people to be in a relationship for such a long time without knowing so much about each other, including their origin and family root. Some are even of the opinion that they were carried away by love all these while.
REACTIONS:
Well, we have managed to capture a couple of comments and other reactions from from people who lend their voices on the subject matter.
“He never wanted to marry you nne. Better wey go love everything about you go come by the grace of God, be strong,” Facebook user @ Ebubechukwu Agu said.
“What do you guys talk about when you were dating or courting. Basic things you should have known on your first meeting or date it is coming to you and with a shock. Na waoo,” @ Ayoola Kofoworola Fanibuyan.
“Another tale of things that never happened….7 years in a relationship and your partner don’t know where you come from,” @ Princess Anita.
“So they wey just playing and having fun for good seven years. Una 2 Don chop una self wetin no good finish,” @ Ezinne Cynthia Nwanneka.
“A man who wants to marry you will find a way. A man who doesn’t will find an excuse,” @ Paulinus Ugwuja.
“Nne forget that guy. He is not serious jhoor. Abeg if you are born and breathe in Awada Say Hi,” @ Amaka Gold Njubigbo.
“Una do pre wedding shoot without introduction…Tales of moonlight,” @ Elohor Chella Okoh.
“I don’t understand? You were only licking cold stone in the relationship?” @ Oge Ugwa.
“Hope sey you neva open nyash for am?” @ Dackmaern Ess.
“Dats is not d problem he just used dat has an excuse my sis,” @ Aduzzy Oluwa.
“Why didn’t he do all his findings before now?” @ Ada Gaius.
“But how come they dated 7 years and the guy didn’t know where she’s from. This can’t be true,” @ Mr Freshguy.
“Akuko Mike Ejeagha,” @ Amarachi Maureen.
“Awada kwa. If you come be mammy girl nko? U never talk wetin bring breakfast,” @ Ibekwe Anuri Jessica.
Their action is a typical situation of one cleaning his or her anus before going to excret or to the toilet.
