This will forever be an endless discussion regards the issue of how many years is the maximum a lady should wait for a man after engagement. Well, we are at it once again as a certain Nigerian lady identified as Chico Ogbonna calls out her fiance, who she mentioned as Onyekachi Nwabueze, for engaging her for ten (10) years now, and yet no show.
In the post which has since gone viral, she is seeking public opinion on what she should do regards the matter. One of the responses she got from one Facebook user @Ohaja Chima reads, “nwanne send me his picture let me join two of you by force in the spirit.”
Another from one Kingsley Ibeh Ahunanya, “you’re now Lord of the rings”.
In as much as some of the comments might sound funny and comically represented, this has often been an issue among lovers, were a young lady at her prime will be engaged by her boyfriend/man and left for many years. Often because of the fact that the is not financially fit to perform the marriage rites at that period or to ward off external interests.
Unfortunately, most of these stories end up in tears and total disappointment, as most of these men end up betraying the love and trust by going to marry another lady/woman. In other words, if a man have to engage a woman for up to ten years, it practically mean that he is not ready for marriage and should stop wasting her time, especially ladies who do not have time on their side.