Davido and Chioma Rowland, fondly called Chef Chi has really passed a lot of hurdles in the journey of their love, including circumstances many people may have easily concluded that “it is over” between the lovebirds. Yet in all of these, the duo always overcome and coming out stronger than ever.
Recall the recent story cooked up by a certain desperate US based Nigerian lady who calls herself Anita something, claiming to be carrying a baby for Davido, of which many people had hastily predicted that “it is over” once again between them, yet, they triumphed as usual and silenced their critics. Even, many people, especially women kept pressuring Chioma to leave Davido, citing many reasons, of which prominent among their reasons is that the music star do not love Chioma, hence the reason he kept disrespecting her by flirting and cheating with other women.
Even while the matter was so hot and trending everywhere for weeks, Chioma never uttered a word, she kept her cool, focusing on building her home and marriage, such that has today become the envy of many and dream of many Nigerian women.
Even people who have had countless failed relationships and marriages turned out to be overnight experts in relationship and marriage counselling and teaching on top Davido and Chioma matter. My greatest joy and happiness is the fact that Chioma is not moved by public opinions and emotions, she does her thing her own way, and as such, has often disappointed expectations from social media in laws and emergency relationship/marriage experts.
YeS, we understand that Davido has his shortcomings and has done a couple of wrongs against Chioma, but let me be frank with you, Davido has never really loved any other woman the way he loves Chioma. You can argue this from now till eternity, but the signs are all over there. Besides you can’t love Chioma more than herself nor know what is the best for her more than she herself knows, as such, if Davido isn’t good, loving and caring enough for Chioma, she wouldn’t need you to remind her even.
Now, most of those who constantly pressured her to leave her marriage with Davido at every slightest issue between them, even if it’s rumour or false alarm, are same people posting her glowing photos inside her marriage with Davido, including that of her twins baby. You are always happy when you see videos and photos of them together, attending events, sharing beautiful moments together, but you will always be the first to insult Chioma for refusing to dump Davido.
I’m really happy how Davido and his wife Chioma have really taught people the bitter lesson of minding their business by acting like these social media deceivers never existed in their sight for once. They have made it known to these group of people that their family issues remains their private matter as well, as such, those waiting for the couple to drag their private affairs to the public space through social media can actually wait for eternity. These are some of the things others need to learn from the enviable marriage of Davido and Chioma, as social media validation has never been of any help to any relationship or marriage.
Forget about sentiments or prejudice, look well and you will see a man (Davido) who is crazily in love with his woman (Chioma). Wait first, do you think Davido do not have many other women flashing their red lights at him, even more beautiful, prettier, connected, fashionable and richer women than Chioma, even the ones who knows how to do it on the bed better than our Chef Chi, yet our brother Davido has continued to stick with her.
Do you know that Davido has other baby mamas, including his first, Sophia Momodu, who gave the “Fall” crooner his first child/daughter, Imade Adeleke. Meanwhile, you know how much Davido loves Imade, and that alone is enough reason for him to retain Imade’s mum as to ensure that he satisfies the craving of his beautiful daughter.
But this never happened, rather it is the then little known Chioma that stole his heart and soul, such that he had quickly tie the knot with her. And tomorrow you social media relationship/marriage experts will come here to force Chioma to leave, even at their slightest misunderstanding, etc.
Well, if you are the type who is still depends on social media for relationship advice, my dear it’s a pity for you. Which Chioma truly understands this game and has equally refused to fall into their trap, which has disappointed lots of netizens!
(photo credit: Facebook/Nollywood Actresses)