The messy drama rocking the ill-fated marriage between one Mrs. Divine Anawanti and Mr. December Nwadoro has continued to worsen.
Recall that Mr. December Nwadoro had taken to his social media platform to announce the dissolution of his marriage with his estranged wife, Divine Anawanti. While reacting to that, his ex wife has revealed that her ex husband is a chronic womanizer and debtor.
She alleged that her ex husband is still owing her brother the sum of three hundred thousand Naira (#300,000), and also, that the pair of shoes he’s often seen wearing belongs to her family.
She warned of the danger of just listening and concluding from one side of a story, hence why she’s forced to speak about what actually transpired in their marriage. Further, she made it clear that her ex husband, December Nwadoro did not marry her on social media, hence he should follow all necessary legal procedures in divorcing her.
“There is serious danger of listening to a single story line and silence they said is golden, but at this particular moment, speaking out is more valuable than gold.
My ex-husband first, didn’t marry me on the Facebook or the social media, he should divorce me legally by following the prerequisite procedures of divorce,” she wrote.
She equally alleged that her ex husband was having a secret love affairs with a certain lady that stays in the same compound with them.
She further lamented how it is this lady in question that her ex hubby shares his plans with, only for her to hear her husband’s plans first from this lady in question. Also claimed that whenever this lady comes to their house, that her husband will chase her (his wife) out of the house.
“My husband was acting in a suspicious way with a lady in staying in our yard. Several people were even saying that they were surprised he didn’t marry the lady.
If my husband wants to do something, he will be first consult the lady, he will mandate me to bring out her food, whenever the lady is inside the house, he will send me outside. Is the lady in question that will even tell me of the plans of my ex-husband,” she added.
She also revealed that it all began few months after they got married, as her husband would always be with this lady, helping her to even wash the fresh fish she sell.
In her exact words she said, “let me tell you this, this problem started some months after our marriage, he was helping this particular lady to wash her fresh fish. My question is this, what is the reason behind such a relationship with a lady that is not related to December Nwadoro by blood?”
She equally alleged that her ex husband would go to work, and will either come home late, or that he sleeps outside. Even, that he comes home at times with sex enhancement pills and contraceptives, and if she questions about them he gets mad at her.
“Whenever he goes to work, he will not come back early or even sleep outside, and he returns he will return with contraceptives and Viagra pills. If I ask, he will be mad at me.
I know how he was when I met him, he was a nobody whom I was feeding. He is accusing my family of threatening him, but he owns my brother N300,000 and the shoes he is wearing are from my side,” she continued.
She then made another case of how her husband will always abandon her and their five months old baby, and rather chose to be flirting around.
“How did I wrong him? This is our five-month-old baby that needs fatherly care, but he was leaving the baby and be flirting around. Please let people advise him to behave like a learned man he is claiming to be by following the required process of divorce,” she concluded.
Meanwhile, this was a marriage contracted sometime in February 2023, and the marriage ceremonies were such a lavished one, especially the traditional and white wedding. Unfortunately, barely a year down the line the marriage has suffered a fatal crash.
It has once again popped up the question, is it the amount of money spent during wedding that matters most in a marriage? Yes, because you need to see how people, especially women in this part of the world go about marriage ceremonies, even to the extent of borrowing huge amount of money just to fund their wedding.
Meanwhile, a lot of these marriages end up in the dustbin before the break of dawn. People should start investing more on things that will make their marriages work and last, rather than on things aimed to seek societal and social media validations.
Just like a university graduate who poses only paper (certificate) without knowledge, the paper is practically useless. In same way, spending all the millions just to have the most talked about wedding ceremony without investing on your marriage itself. You all end up in the same Whatsapp group!
