The past few days or weeks rather, have been characterised with the unpleasant story of the health predicaments bedevilling the life of rising Nigerian cross dresser and transgender, Anthony Daniel Nsikan, popularly known as Jay Boogie. This follows the botched BBL surgery he underwent in the hands of a certain female cosmetic surgeon in Lagos State.
Meanwhile, since then, it has been one ugly story or the other, to the extent that Jay Boogie has constantly been on social media platforms, crying out to the public for financial assistance as the health problems she’s facing currently has dried up her money and savings. The worse part of it is that it has to do with her kidney, of which the latest information coming from himself indicates that it is the both kidney that is affected.
In the face of this, many people have seriously criticized Jay Boogie for several reasons, mostly for his decision to go for that surgery when he already has one of the most beautiful and enviable anyone could pray for, even those who have spent millions of money do not possess such body shape. Of which, that is the starting point of his predicaments, because he failed to have a firm control of his lifestyle, choices, desires and his priorities in life- simply because he want to please the world people, who are nowhere to be found when he needed them the most!
First of all, for those who don’t know Jay Boogie well enough, go to his Instagram page or Google to see his photos, after which you come back to continue reading this article. Yes, so that you can make a well informed judgment on this matter in the end of you reading this blog post on the health predicaments of Jay Boogie.
Now, ask yourself, what actually was Jay Boogie looking for again, that he do not have? Is it the good looks that suits his choice of lifestyle, or rather, career? Is it the body shape that he doesn’t have? No! He has all these in abundance. Do you know that when he first came into limelight, many people doubted that he was a male gender, simply because of how pretty, cute and beautiful he look, and his hips (nyash) don’t lie as well. He has it all in quantum, then you ask yourself once again, what then pushed him into that decision for the BBL surgery which became the Genesis of his troubles?
He was living a life to please the world, to please the unknown faces surrounding his life and existence! He want to be hailed on social media, to being tagged as the most beautiful and sexiest amongst his peers. He wants to be ahead of Bobrisky, James Brown and their other colleagues. When you post videos or photos, they will turn it into competition between you and the aforementioned persons, with majority sticking with you and your head will start swelling with hubris. That’s all you stand to gain in all of these, yet see where such stupidity has eventually landed you, and none of those pushing you have done anything to help your health condition.
Unfortunately for him, he didn’t even have the money to travel outside the country to have it done like most other celebrities do, yet you want to compete, you want to rank top. All those you were doing all these to please, where are they today? How many of them have visited you at the hospital? How many have called you? How many have sent money to you since you began crying for help? Well, isn’t this a huge lesson to him and to others? If this isn’t enough lesson to others, then it is a pity!
You see this thing called social media, if you do not have proper self control, discipline, restraint, and wisdom, it will definitely end up pushing you to untimely death. There’s no gainsaying here, these are things we have seen or witnessed on many occasions, so it’s not to scare anyone, rather it is for you to learn from it.
Known when to do certain things, know the value of whatever adventure you wish for your life, weigh all the available options especially the gains and pains. That others are doing it doesn’t make it right, doesn’t make it a necessity, doesn’t make it suitable for you, doesn’t make it important and valuable to your life! Because just like many people have criticized Jay Boogie, what was the need for this BBL surgery he went for? Is he looking to start competing with the likes of Destiny Etiko, Chizzy Alichi, Roman Goddess on Instagram, Ini Edo, Mercy Johnson, Luchy Donalds, etc, on who has the biggest butt (nyash), especially the ones with ears, as fondly said in this part of the world?
Well, while we join others to wish him quick recovery, we equally hope that others have learnt their lessons as well? Because most of them if you give them advice on social media it will immediately earn you insults from them and their blind followers, asking if you are to tell people how to live their private lives. Yet when their own idea, lifestyle and decision fail them, it is the same people they have insulted life out of them, they will shamelessly run to, crying for financial help and other assistance from them.
What are we saying in other words, start unnecessary competition instigated by social media pressure! Stop punishing your life simply because you want to please people you don’t know, people you have never met and will likely not meet them all your life, people who will go about their lives when you are lying and dying on your sick bed, people who won’t even spare one Naira to donate to you.
Meanwhile, it is this same people that will write lots of bad stuffs about you on their platforms or others. But when they come to your page they pretend to love you, but behind you they have literally killed you! Be wise as a word is enough for the wise!
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