A certain Nigerian lady has caused quite a stir online following her recent revelation about how she was able to get her own husband at the detriment of her fellow gender.
Identified by her social media name on TikTok @oxyjene, she stated how she had met her husband during her National Youth Service Corps, NYSC, in Kubwa camp, in Bwari of the Federal Capital Territory, FCT.
While they were dating, she got a call one Sunday from a certain lady, who identified herself as the girlfriend of the man she had met at the NYSC camp, and equally revealed that they have been dating for about 7 years now.
Not bothered by the call, she went on with her relationship with her new boyfriend, and soon after they got married.
She revealed that they got married legally recently. “I got married legally to the boy I met in Kubwa NYSC camp,” she wrote.
Reactions:
The post has sparked massive reactions on social media, with people divided on the matter.
Some blamed the ex for wasting such a huge amount of time with a man, some made it clear that once a relationship exceeds certain time frame that it’s better you move on with your life.
Some others hailed the poster for being intentional about what she wants in life, and there are those who reminded her of Karma.
“Life never goes according to plan.
Believe me , if the ex have seen someone better before now, she would have dump the guy as well.
Don’t allow anyone waste ur time in the name of love,” Queen Daniella Adedeji.
“You see men eeh..If you date them more than 1year you are on your own, except you dont want to marry. Make sure you ask him his intentions. Be saying he loves me up and down. Love with your brain,” @ Real Naija Therapist.
“And you happily jumped into his arms after few weeks knowing fully well he’s hurting another lady after wasting 7years of her life,” @ Shaba Shaba.
“The Ex girlfriend didn’t die, she didn’t come on social media to tell us her man left her… She won,” @ Future Eke.
“Na woman dey do woman,” Rose Anigboji.
“Omo Jennifer dey trend o. God Bless your Home my Darling, nothing will happen to your Marriage,” Ruth Abirina Emmanuel.
“I was also a Victim ooooo
9 wasted Years. Some Men sha ooooooo,” Halima Lazarus Hanakuka.
