Over time I have actually come across people who decide to move on with their lives, either in marriage, relationship, work space, environment, etc.
And as long as I’m not directly involved in the person’s life, I do not think I have the right to interfere in the person’s personal life.
Hence why I wasn’t really involved in bashing Yul Edochie when he decided to scatter his beautiful marriage and family with May Yul Edochie by marrying a second wife in the person of actress Judy Austin.
Well, I have come to the conclusion that the young man, Yul Edochie, is seriously going astray in the name of his marriage with Judy Austin. And I hope it’s not too late by the time he recollects himself and realizes his mistakes as well.
I do not think the young man is with his clear eyes at all, and I strongly believe he’s in that marriage because of what transpired in the dark world, beyond his power of resistance.
The Yul Edochie I knew years ago is a man who doesn’t joke with his marriage, with family, wife (May) and his kids. He was so passionate about his family, such that he could go any length just to keep his family happy.
But look at him today, he’s completely a changed person, no longer care about the feelings of his beloved kids with May Yul Edochie.
The Nollywood actor could go to the social media platforms and post whatever he likes, or whether it is posted by Judy, but the fact remains that he’s fully aware of the activities on his social media.
Do you know that 90% of what he shares on his social media hurts his kids with May? Breaks their hearts and makes them sad and unhappy? Because they feel for their mother, May. They have assumed her position, as such, taking bullets on behalf of her.
The worse thing you as a father can do to your children, I mean the height of wickedness and maltreatment against your kids is by maltreating their mother before them. It is better you perpetrate your wickedness against them directly than doing it to their mother. You are not just hurting them, but you are destroying their soul and life.
I recall when were still kids back then, whenever my dad maltreats our mother, we will go inside our room and be crying silently. The pains hardly go away easily until maybe, when we see that our mother is okay, especially seeing that she and our dad have reconciled.
Most of the posts made by the actor is simply aimed at making May to feel bad abs and sad, make her feel the extreme pains of loosing him; just to pepper her. And these kids are fully aware of these things, and they are hurting badly, and if you doubt me, find anyone close to any of them and find out from these persons.
Yul could have married his Judy Austin quietly and in peace, without being loud about it on social media, knowing fully well that his kids will see all these things, their friends will see it as well and use it against them.
That’s why you see most footballers refusing to celebrate loudly when they score against their former club(s). It is not because anybody will beat them for scoring and celebrating, but they understand that doing it will hurt that their former club, especially their fans. As such, they refuse to celebrate such goals in a loud manner.
But it is so unfortunate that Yul Edochie doesn’t care about the feelings of his kids, by being extremely mindful of his activities on social media, precisely his ‘pepper them’ social media activities with Judy Austin, whom this kids see as their mother’s arch rival or even enemy.
Even if Yul doesn’t care any more about the feelings of May, what about his lovely children? His true blood? He should just be very careful, nobody knows tomorrow, he might be feeling on top of the world today, but he doesn’t know what tomorrow has in store.
Besides, when last did he spent time those kids he had with May? Yul of before posts about his kids a lot on social media, but when last did he do it? Or has he equally cut off completely from them? Hmmm.
A word is enough for the wise!
